Growing up with the picture of a powerful and influential man sometimes been painted as a SUPERMAN (the super hero), I develop the tendency to wanting to disappear and reappear or sometimes be able to shoot gun and win battles, may be that was from the cartoons and late night movies.
As a young man I soon discover that the most powerful of all only stay behind the scene, controlling the activities and making things happen. This seems to make them INVISIBLE.
Many have picked up wrong doctrines from such representation, thereby be coming wicked and crafty.
How I love to be famous and influential! If that is your quest I do know in road, although am learning the process too. In my pursuit in life I have discover certain truth that may grant the Midas touch.
1. Be Single eye.
This principle those not relate to our physical human eye, but rather our intension.
Purity of purpose and intention per time is key to long lasting abundance. Anyone who deals with double mind may gather a few, but everything will soon disappear in his eyes.
To mature minds such attitude smells and can be perceived as disloyal, which may cost a fortune. If you reward evil for good, the sword may not depart your door. Make all things appear blameless (and truly blameless) before all.
To the pure all things are pure.
2. Practice transmutation.
Learning this in the university was a rewarding experience. Transmutation is the conscious shift of mental worries to active and productive venture.
When it seems that you are wounded or fall short of expectations, shift that hurt psychologically to a profitable event, getting to intensify your effort to follow through to success.
Leading a faith-based organisation on campus came with so much fame and responsibility for me, but at every time I tried to establish a relationship with a female friend and it turned to fall short of expectation, that is, a positive response, though feeling wounded I get back to my leadership position pouring that hurt out as quality time of investment on my work yielding better results and adding more crown to my name I more or less became invisible.
That is called SEX TRANSMUTATION.
3. Be dynamic, spontaneous and focus
To be successful you must be able to multi-task. However, being able to focus on each task to follow through to success is a great virtue.
Focus is the greatest skill of a sniper, dynamic and spontaneous response is the skill to keep him alive to win battles.
Your response as a leader in time of crisis determine whether your team float, sink or swim.
Never leave life to chance, you may never have an opportunity to replay.
Saturday, June 11, 2011
Friday, June 3, 2011
Tips for living happily with your spouse
Living happily with your spouse does not happen by chance but takes several deliberate and carefully calculated steps
You have to be deliberate about being happy.
Happiness is not just a function of the buoyancy of your pocket but it’s a state of the mind. Happiness is available to the rich and the poor.
Here is a collection of tips that would help you achieve living happily with your spouse. If we can stay up all night to study and pass school exams, then these tips shouldn’t be too long for us to print and possibly recite over and over again until they become part of us.
The quality of your preparation determines the quality of your performance so start now especially if you are not married yet.
1. Never assume.
2. Compliment more than you criticize.
3. For each time you vent about your husband/wife/partner to your friends, tell three positive stories.
4. Remember that it is ok to do things differently (e.g. there is more than one way to peel a potato or fold the laundry).
5. Always make time for the two of you.
6. Marry someone that you enjoy listening and talking to.
7. Remember that marriage is sometimes a bed of roses and sometimes there are thorns.
8. Remember that the best gift that you can give your children is to love their mother/father.
9. Be fair! Split the housework, spending money, etc evenly. This way you are never resentful of your partners contributions (or lack of) or expenditures.
10. Never go to bed angry. (Unless it's 3a.m. and you're exhausted, angry, and not thinking straight.)
11. Remember that people do fight. It's how you do it that matters.
12. Before starting an argument, consider if it's really worth it.
13. Fight naked. ;)
14. Agree to disagree.
15. Never, ever mention the "D" word (divorce).
16. Do you want to be right or do you want to be married?
17. Respect each other's privacy.
18. Remember that "love is like childhood. You need to learn to share."
19. Marriage is not 50/50, it's two people giving 100/100 all of the time.
20. Surprise each other now and then.
21. The secret to a happy marriage is two TV's!
22. Have date night!
23. Never pass up an opportunity to say "I love you".
24. Hold hands.
25. Hug & kiss every day (several times a day actually!).
26. Always believe that you got better than you deserved.
27. Be quick to say "I'm sorry".
28. Choose the one you love, then love the one you choose.
29. Keep the in-laws out of your marriage!
30. Love isn't always a feeling, it's a decision.
31. Hang in there. It's worth it.
32. Play nice, play often, love much.
33. Never air your dirty laundry as a couple in public.
34. Never keep secrets from each other.
35. Be each other's champion. No matter what, take your husband or wife's/partner’s side first!
36. Communication is the key!
37. Always respect each other.
38. Never underestimate the power of a good belly-laugh and don't be afraid to laugh at yourself.
39. It's the little things that matter most.
40. Never use the words 'Always' and 'Never' in a fight.
41. It's ok to argue, but never use curse words to express your anger.
42. Never compare your marriage to others. What you see on the outside is not always what it is on the inside.
43. Don't make love in the same place/position every time. Variety is the spice of life!
My passion: Seeing relationships work not just by chance; but by taking calculated, ordered and cautious steps through God’s wisdom
You have to be deliberate about being happy.
Happiness is not just a function of the buoyancy of your pocket but it’s a state of the mind. Happiness is available to the rich and the poor.
Here is a collection of tips that would help you achieve living happily with your spouse. If we can stay up all night to study and pass school exams, then these tips shouldn’t be too long for us to print and possibly recite over and over again until they become part of us.
The quality of your preparation determines the quality of your performance so start now especially if you are not married yet.
1. Never assume.
2. Compliment more than you criticize.
3. For each time you vent about your husband/wife/partner to your friends, tell three positive stories.
4. Remember that it is ok to do things differently (e.g. there is more than one way to peel a potato or fold the laundry).
5. Always make time for the two of you.
6. Marry someone that you enjoy listening and talking to.
7. Remember that marriage is sometimes a bed of roses and sometimes there are thorns.
8. Remember that the best gift that you can give your children is to love their mother/father.
9. Be fair! Split the housework, spending money, etc evenly. This way you are never resentful of your partners contributions (or lack of) or expenditures.
10. Never go to bed angry. (Unless it's 3a.m. and you're exhausted, angry, and not thinking straight.)
11. Remember that people do fight. It's how you do it that matters.
12. Before starting an argument, consider if it's really worth it.
13. Fight naked. ;)
14. Agree to disagree.
15. Never, ever mention the "D" word (divorce).
16. Do you want to be right or do you want to be married?
17. Respect each other's privacy.
18. Remember that "love is like childhood. You need to learn to share."
19. Marriage is not 50/50, it's two people giving 100/100 all of the time.
20. Surprise each other now and then.
21. The secret to a happy marriage is two TV's!
22. Have date night!
23. Never pass up an opportunity to say "I love you".
24. Hold hands.
25. Hug & kiss every day (several times a day actually!).
26. Always believe that you got better than you deserved.
27. Be quick to say "I'm sorry".
28. Choose the one you love, then love the one you choose.
29. Keep the in-laws out of your marriage!
30. Love isn't always a feeling, it's a decision.
31. Hang in there. It's worth it.
32. Play nice, play often, love much.
33. Never air your dirty laundry as a couple in public.
34. Never keep secrets from each other.
35. Be each other's champion. No matter what, take your husband or wife's/partner’s side first!
36. Communication is the key!
37. Always respect each other.
38. Never underestimate the power of a good belly-laugh and don't be afraid to laugh at yourself.
39. It's the little things that matter most.
40. Never use the words 'Always' and 'Never' in a fight.
41. It's ok to argue, but never use curse words to express your anger.
42. Never compare your marriage to others. What you see on the outside is not always what it is on the inside.
43. Don't make love in the same place/position every time. Variety is the spice of life!
My passion: Seeing relationships work not just by chance; but by taking calculated, ordered and cautious steps through God’s wisdom
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
THIS RANCH
The best of things that ever happen to mankind was not some kind of financial breakthrough or becoming famous.
We will soon discovery in life that the best of things are not found in the palace of the world most influential King or Queen. Rather is the best connection in that of the President of the world power.
How then can man find fulfilment? How then can little be multiplied?
Man can keep searching without end.
The answer to the best things of life is locating your RANCH.
Your place of purpose.
Where work is without stress.
Where you function by default.
It should never be complicated. Make it simple. Simplify leaving is key to locating your ranch. Life was never created to be complicated or synthetic. Be free.
That was why God gave simple rules to man and placed in Eden to nurture and watch life grow.
Learn to identify your ranch and watch it grow.
It does not have to be all ready-made or a palace of roses.
In this ranch we learn to build and stay with it. Stay with your assignment, run your race the journey is far.
Welcome to THIS RANCH, where excuses stop.
THIS RANCH.
We will soon discovery in life that the best of things are not found in the palace of the world most influential King or Queen. Rather is the best connection in that of the President of the world power.
How then can man find fulfilment? How then can little be multiplied?
Man can keep searching without end.
The answer to the best things of life is locating your RANCH.
Your place of purpose.
Where work is without stress.
Where you function by default.
It should never be complicated. Make it simple. Simplify leaving is key to locating your ranch. Life was never created to be complicated or synthetic. Be free.
That was why God gave simple rules to man and placed in Eden to nurture and watch life grow.
Learn to identify your ranch and watch it grow.
It does not have to be all ready-made or a palace of roses.
In this ranch we learn to build and stay with it. Stay with your assignment, run your race the journey is far.
Welcome to THIS RANCH, where excuses stop.
THIS RANCH.
Thursday, May 19, 2011
NEVER GIVE YOUR POWER AWAY
Never give your power away.
Delegation has cost us the strength of our being. Team work has broken the backbone of celebrities in their foetus stage of development. Not to talk of technology, this left many behind, without an ability to provide livelihood for their family.
I do believe in doing things as a team, but whenever you are privilege to lead a team or in leading your home and life into destiny, kindly learn to own the password to the vital areas to whatever it takes to succeed.
Learning this the hard way was not the best. Not to worry I learnt it very fast. As an undergraduate I organised various seminars teaching personal development strategies, self mastery, social ethics and protocol. I just knew what to say and how to get the wao moment from my audience, but never master the perfect use of Microsoft power point. I delegated it to friends who never knew the urgency of the work just a night before the major event.
The university conference hall was already set, posters and handbills with my pictures where all around campus, participants where already paying for the seminars. Here I am without a complete power point slides for my presentation. The content was very rich and voluminous; it was an intensive training of three days and minimum of six hours daily. I could not do it myself, I wrote the content on a note book for friends to help type, cut to the content on power point slide and put to appropriate design for use.
Working for about seven hours friends left me to my business of fame and knowledge without skill. With further complication from my laptop developing a screen problem I felt alone.
All thanks, there was a prompting within me never to be afraid, I got dress, getting to the conference centre three hours early in company of another friend who came with his laptop and printer to help. While speaking he was designing the next set of slides for presentation.
Never give your power away. Whatever makes your business work, be the master at it.
In IT business you may not be able to learn the programming languages or the necessary coding, but learn the process that lead to the programming and if you are given the codes can you input it appropriately? If that is not the core of your business do not mind.
In a church the power point is not in the choir or technical personnel, not to talk of sanctuary keepers or traffic and security department, although they are important, but the ability to design a system that unity the different skills and faces is the core of Church, this comes with the most essential ingredient, Spiritual connectivity- the power of God and the ministration of the word. This should not be delegated to the prayer department, neither to a bible study group.
As a mother or wife taking care of your children and honouring your husband is the core of that aspect of your life. It should not be delegated to a house maid or some care givers. To fathers or husbands providing and loving your wife and children is what you do, be a master at that too.
If everyone learns to be proficient at work the world will be a better place.
Never give your power away.
Delegation has cost us the strength of our being. Team work has broken the backbone of celebrities in their foetus stage of development. Not to talk of technology, this left many behind, without an ability to provide livelihood for their family.
I do believe in doing things as a team, but whenever you are privilege to lead a team or in leading your home and life into destiny, kindly learn to own the password to the vital areas to whatever it takes to succeed.
Learning this the hard way was not the best. Not to worry I learnt it very fast. As an undergraduate I organised various seminars teaching personal development strategies, self mastery, social ethics and protocol. I just knew what to say and how to get the wao moment from my audience, but never master the perfect use of Microsoft power point. I delegated it to friends who never knew the urgency of the work just a night before the major event.
The university conference hall was already set, posters and handbills with my pictures where all around campus, participants where already paying for the seminars. Here I am without a complete power point slides for my presentation. The content was very rich and voluminous; it was an intensive training of three days and minimum of six hours daily. I could not do it myself, I wrote the content on a note book for friends to help type, cut to the content on power point slide and put to appropriate design for use.
Working for about seven hours friends left me to my business of fame and knowledge without skill. With further complication from my laptop developing a screen problem I felt alone.
All thanks, there was a prompting within me never to be afraid, I got dress, getting to the conference centre three hours early in company of another friend who came with his laptop and printer to help. While speaking he was designing the next set of slides for presentation.
Never give your power away. Whatever makes your business work, be the master at it.
In IT business you may not be able to learn the programming languages or the necessary coding, but learn the process that lead to the programming and if you are given the codes can you input it appropriately? If that is not the core of your business do not mind.
In a church the power point is not in the choir or technical personnel, not to talk of sanctuary keepers or traffic and security department, although they are important, but the ability to design a system that unity the different skills and faces is the core of Church, this comes with the most essential ingredient, Spiritual connectivity- the power of God and the ministration of the word. This should not be delegated to the prayer department, neither to a bible study group.
As a mother or wife taking care of your children and honouring your husband is the core of that aspect of your life. It should not be delegated to a house maid or some care givers. To fathers or husbands providing and loving your wife and children is what you do, be a master at that too.
If everyone learns to be proficient at work the world will be a better place.
Never give your power away.
Saturday, May 14, 2011
MIRACLES HAPPEN
Miracles happen every day if only we can recognise it.
Everyday around us there are opportunities presenting themselves as problems. Our ability to solve the problem leads to overwhelming abundance.
I have learnt over the years that the level of opportunity that you will ever experience is determined by your solution providing ability and response.
I have missed golden opportunities just because my response time was too slow to get the job done.
Since then I have decided to run ahead of opportunities. Miracles still happen daily.
Running ahead of opportunities is scheduling for success.
What are the opportunities that you missed in time past?
Start preparing for them like you have not lost that deal.
Design the frame work before the job comes. One thing am very sure of is that opportunities that you missed today are still running in cycles someday, soon, the same will appear to you, may be in a bigger fashion.
You have to prepare today.
Miracles happen daily.
Everyday around us there are opportunities presenting themselves as problems. Our ability to solve the problem leads to overwhelming abundance.
I have learnt over the years that the level of opportunity that you will ever experience is determined by your solution providing ability and response.
I have missed golden opportunities just because my response time was too slow to get the job done.
Since then I have decided to run ahead of opportunities. Miracles still happen daily.
Running ahead of opportunities is scheduling for success.
What are the opportunities that you missed in time past?
Start preparing for them like you have not lost that deal.
Design the frame work before the job comes. One thing am very sure of is that opportunities that you missed today are still running in cycles someday, soon, the same will appear to you, may be in a bigger fashion.
You have to prepare today.
Miracles happen daily.
Friday, May 6, 2011
LEADING CHANGE
"Overhauling the way a company does business calls for new skills and new relationships throughout the company's entire ecosystem-fundamentally new ways of looking at every process and every concept. Without generous portions of the right kind of leadership, workers will react to this avalanche of change as normal human being-heading backward toward the "safety" of the way things were. You, the leader, might be a bit chary of change yourself, because change will rearrange the elements that brought you to your current eminence."
My thought is deep. How do we effectively lead change, while we live in this cloth of flesh. Know that the human nature always want to stay within a comfort zone. The constant ingredient for change in leadership is VISION.
While in deep meditation few line came to mind, through my experience and haven’t lead success of organisation to change i can relate with these, enjoy as you read.
1. Cultivate people management skill.
People are important to vision, dreams and ideas. Humans are the life-blood of systems. A work force not well guide will destroy the world class system and concept.
Remember, leaders touch a heart before they ask for a hand.
2. Inspection.
Conduct constant inspect of the processing line each minute. Keep watch on the job. People dont do what expect, they only do what you inspect.
3. Never give power your away.
I learnt this the hard way, while I organise seminars without adequate knowledge of the power point design.
You should not be a novice in whatever is the core of your assignment or work. Walk the length and breadth of the change you aspire to lead.
It’s a disaster to have a novice as a leader.
4. Train them.
Staff development is important to organisational growth. If you don’t train them don’t blame them. Develop the intelligence of your staff in the line of change your organisation desire.
5. Keep at it.
Big shoots are little shoots that kept shooting. Whatever challenge encountered on the journey to change, count it all a part of the process. Keep refining your process to achieve the goal. Our lives will only get better if we don’t give on ourselves. Keep walking.
6. Relax.
Relax. Relax. Relax. Renew your strength by taking some time out to rest, have some time with your family, staff and / or friends. Life goes round when we share the joy of life with whom we do productive work together. Imagine a world without play. Where everything you do have to be serious. Relax.
Thanks
My thought is deep. How do we effectively lead change, while we live in this cloth of flesh. Know that the human nature always want to stay within a comfort zone. The constant ingredient for change in leadership is VISION.
While in deep meditation few line came to mind, through my experience and haven’t lead success of organisation to change i can relate with these, enjoy as you read.
1. Cultivate people management skill.
People are important to vision, dreams and ideas. Humans are the life-blood of systems. A work force not well guide will destroy the world class system and concept.
Remember, leaders touch a heart before they ask for a hand.
2. Inspection.
Conduct constant inspect of the processing line each minute. Keep watch on the job. People dont do what expect, they only do what you inspect.
3. Never give power your away.
I learnt this the hard way, while I organise seminars without adequate knowledge of the power point design.
You should not be a novice in whatever is the core of your assignment or work. Walk the length and breadth of the change you aspire to lead.
It’s a disaster to have a novice as a leader.
4. Train them.
Staff development is important to organisational growth. If you don’t train them don’t blame them. Develop the intelligence of your staff in the line of change your organisation desire.
5. Keep at it.
Big shoots are little shoots that kept shooting. Whatever challenge encountered on the journey to change, count it all a part of the process. Keep refining your process to achieve the goal. Our lives will only get better if we don’t give on ourselves. Keep walking.
6. Relax.
Relax. Relax. Relax. Renew your strength by taking some time out to rest, have some time with your family, staff and / or friends. Life goes round when we share the joy of life with whom we do productive work together. Imagine a world without play. Where everything you do have to be serious. Relax.
Thanks
Friday, April 29, 2011
CHANGE LEVELS
Life only reaches its peak when you stop.
The peak of life in itself is determined by your ability to keep walking.
The road may not be smooth, life those not promise to be all roses, never expect to drive the road of life without bumps.
However, like the gear system in a motor car, to climb a higher height you most change gear. You need a "high push" from deep within your being to excel in the journey of life.
There no iron clad rule on how to journey in life, but there are constant gears to change level in life.
1. Joyfulness: the joyful ones rule the rest. Be happy.
2. Incubate: Keep ideas within you until they are fully developed.
3. Innovate: Be strategic at life. Be dynamic. Use technology to enhance whatever you do. Go beyond borders.
4. Associate: Be free to love and be loved.
WHATEVER LIFE BRINGS TO YOU KEEP WALKING, YOU WILL WIN.
The peak of life in itself is determined by your ability to keep walking.
The road may not be smooth, life those not promise to be all roses, never expect to drive the road of life without bumps.
However, like the gear system in a motor car, to climb a higher height you most change gear. You need a "high push" from deep within your being to excel in the journey of life.
There no iron clad rule on how to journey in life, but there are constant gears to change level in life.
1. Joyfulness: the joyful ones rule the rest. Be happy.
2. Incubate: Keep ideas within you until they are fully developed.
3. Innovate: Be strategic at life. Be dynamic. Use technology to enhance whatever you do. Go beyond borders.
4. Associate: Be free to love and be loved.
WHATEVER LIFE BRINGS TO YOU KEEP WALKING, YOU WILL WIN.
CHANGE LEVELS
Life only reaches its peak when you stop.
The peak of life in itself is determined by your ability to keep walking.
The road may not be smooth, life those not promise to be all roses, never expect to drive the road of life without bumps.
However, like the gear system in a motor car, to climb a higher height you most change gear. You need a "high push" from deep within your being to excel in the journey of life.
There no iron clad rule on how to journey in life, but there are constant gears to change level in life.
1. Joyfulness: the joyful ones rule the rest. Be happy.
2. Incubate: Keep ideas within you until they are fully developed.
3. Innovate: Be strategic at life. Be dynamic. Use technology to enhance whatever you do. Go beyond borders.
4. Associate: Be free to love and be loved.
WHATEVER LIFE BRINGS TO YOU KEEP WALKING, YOU WILL WIN.
The peak of life in itself is determined by your ability to keep walking.
The road may not be smooth, life those not promise to be all roses, never expect to drive the road of life without bumps.
However, like the gear system in a motor car, to climb a higher height you most change gear. You need a "high push" from deep within your being to excel in the journey of life.
There no iron clad rule on how to journey in life, but there are constant gears to change level in life.
1. Joyfulness: the joyful ones rule the rest. Be happy.
2. Incubate: Keep ideas within you until they are fully developed.
3. Innovate: Be strategic at life. Be dynamic. Use technology to enhance whatever you do. Go beyond borders.
4. Associate: Be free to love and be loved.
WHATEVER LIFE BRINGS TO YOU KEEP WALKING, YOU WILL WIN.
Sunday, April 24, 2011
LEARN DAILY
Human beings are made to grow. While there is a rejocing at growth, we such critically exam the down turn of growth.
Many persons who never take note of this dynamics of life cycle have the hands burnt in disgrace. No organisation wants to keep a none productive staff, though growing in age but experiencing a rapid down turn in mental alertness and strategic positioning.
Its natural for the human mental and physical make up to decay if there is no life in them. We can give life to our mortal body by learning daily and maximize the increase of age.
Age speaks wisdom when there is a constant mental growth. Read a book today. Attend that training. Practise the things you have learnt.
When you stop learning , you start dying.
Many persons who never take note of this dynamics of life cycle have the hands burnt in disgrace. No organisation wants to keep a none productive staff, though growing in age but experiencing a rapid down turn in mental alertness and strategic positioning.
Its natural for the human mental and physical make up to decay if there is no life in them. We can give life to our mortal body by learning daily and maximize the increase of age.
Age speaks wisdom when there is a constant mental growth. Read a book today. Attend that training. Practise the things you have learnt.
When you stop learning , you start dying.
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
PRAISES
The back bone of the brave
The captain of the conquerors
The defence of the defenceless
The emperor of the elect
The forerunner in the fight of faith
The governor of the great
The head of all heroes
The image of the invisible God
The judge of all justice
The king of all kingdoms
The leader of the legislators
The master of the mighty
The name above all names
The overseer of the overseers
The powerful prince above principalities and powers
The qualifier of the qualified and unqualified
The ruler of the regents
The sovereign over the supreme
The timeless truth above all teachers
The umpire of the universe
The victor of all victors
The wisdom of the all wise God
The excellent exalter in every examination
The yeoman over the yacht
The zealot at the zenith
In humble adoration , dire perspiration and full submission to Him who hold the Ace of our lives, we make our solemn committements.
The captain of the conquerors
The defence of the defenceless
The emperor of the elect
The forerunner in the fight of faith
The governor of the great
The head of all heroes
The image of the invisible God
The judge of all justice
The king of all kingdoms
The leader of the legislators
The master of the mighty
The name above all names
The overseer of the overseers
The powerful prince above principalities and powers
The qualifier of the qualified and unqualified
The ruler of the regents
The sovereign over the supreme
The timeless truth above all teachers
The umpire of the universe
The victor of all victors
The wisdom of the all wise God
The excellent exalter in every examination
The yeoman over the yacht
The zealot at the zenith
In humble adoration , dire perspiration and full submission to Him who hold the Ace of our lives, we make our solemn committements.
Friday, April 8, 2011
LIFE
Life is good with friends and family.
When you are surrounded by people who share your views and opinions you feel so much at home. At any point when there is a disagreement not throw the baby away with the dirty water.Everyone will not always agree with you at all times. Learn to master relationships. Be calm.
Life is good with mentors.
God gave us mentor so that there can be control.There can be a mentor in a friend or collegue. Never ignore correction.
Correction is bitter, but change you must embrace.
Its bitter but the fruit is sweet.
Life is good with Jesus.
Everyone needs a covering, never live the next minute without Jesus Christ as the Lord of your life.
Life is good.
When you are surrounded by people who share your views and opinions you feel so much at home. At any point when there is a disagreement not throw the baby away with the dirty water.Everyone will not always agree with you at all times. Learn to master relationships. Be calm.
Life is good with mentors.
God gave us mentor so that there can be control.There can be a mentor in a friend or collegue. Never ignore correction.
Correction is bitter, but change you must embrace.
Its bitter but the fruit is sweet.
Life is good with Jesus.
Everyone needs a covering, never live the next minute without Jesus Christ as the Lord of your life.
Life is good.
Friday, April 1, 2011
BLOSSOM: SPEAKING
Its no more news that our words create our world.
I heard of a true life story about an Israeli farmer, a man consistently notice that when he is about planting he holds the seeds in his hand and speak to the seeds (this is a very successful farmer). He approached him out of curiosity, saying what do you speaking to the seeds?
The farmer answered saying: “everything that has life in itself, for it to blossom, it needs some form of encouragement in words”.
Whatever you do today speak to your tomorrow, it will blossom. For every word spoken will attract the equivalent to you.
Speak to everything and anything that has life around you, it will blossom. If no one encourages you, kindly do the world a favour encourage yourself.
Speak to your Church. Speak to your relationship. Speak to your yet unborn children. They will blossom.
I also remember that every seed carries a genetic code, they reproduce after. Your life is a seed speak to it, it will blossom.
Anyone can practically create or recreate his / her world if he / she can dare to give some encouragement in words to his / her life.
Lock yourself up and keep speaking to your future. If you can consistently speak the right words for the next thirty days to a particular accept of your life it will blossom practically while you watch.
Always remember that everything that has life in itself, for it to blossom, needs some form of encouragement in words.
The world is young speak the best, see the best.
I heard of a true life story about an Israeli farmer, a man consistently notice that when he is about planting he holds the seeds in his hand and speak to the seeds (this is a very successful farmer). He approached him out of curiosity, saying what do you speaking to the seeds?
The farmer answered saying: “everything that has life in itself, for it to blossom, it needs some form of encouragement in words”.
Whatever you do today speak to your tomorrow, it will blossom. For every word spoken will attract the equivalent to you.
Speak to everything and anything that has life around you, it will blossom. If no one encourages you, kindly do the world a favour encourage yourself.
Speak to your Church. Speak to your relationship. Speak to your yet unborn children. They will blossom.
I also remember that every seed carries a genetic code, they reproduce after. Your life is a seed speak to it, it will blossom.
Anyone can practically create or recreate his / her world if he / she can dare to give some encouragement in words to his / her life.
Lock yourself up and keep speaking to your future. If you can consistently speak the right words for the next thirty days to a particular accept of your life it will blossom practically while you watch.
Always remember that everything that has life in itself, for it to blossom, needs some form of encouragement in words.
The world is young speak the best, see the best.
Saturday, March 26, 2011
THE COUNSEL
I received a counsel a few weeks back, feel i should share with you, its not absolute but i believe it will bless you. Enjoy learning.
1. Marry right.
2. Both of you should be willing to work on your marriage.
3. Be willing to expose yourself, only to each other.
4. Never allow external influence, first resolve the issues with yourself. Let it be within both of you, if you allow external influence your spouse loose respect with the people. The people may support you but will never respect your spouse; thereby you will soon loose respect too.
5. The way you carry your spouse is the way people will respond to them. Preferable call your spouse “Nike” / pet name.
6. All give to your spouse what they will ordinarily not get outside. Like kneel down for the man. May be say thank you after sex.
7. Never allow ungodly counsel in your relationship. Watch it with face book friends. Know all friends of influence on your spouse, if they are not right agree to cut off from them.
1. Marry right.
2. Both of you should be willing to work on your marriage.
3. Be willing to expose yourself, only to each other.
4. Never allow external influence, first resolve the issues with yourself. Let it be within both of you, if you allow external influence your spouse loose respect with the people. The people may support you but will never respect your spouse; thereby you will soon loose respect too.
5. The way you carry your spouse is the way people will respond to them. Preferable call your spouse “Nike” / pet name.
6. All give to your spouse what they will ordinarily not get outside. Like kneel down for the man. May be say thank you after sex.
7. Never allow ungodly counsel in your relationship. Watch it with face book friends. Know all friends of influence on your spouse, if they are not right agree to cut off from them.
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
SOMEDAY EVERYTHING WILL MAKE PERFECT SENSE
At certain times in our life’s we find the road slippery or face rock hard challenges, despite the investments and the things we know or can do. Is life trying to get me at something? Sometimes we wonder. What is all this about?
One of many lessons I have learnt is never to find the way in anxiety or in worry. It’s frustrating to be running in circles in a dark room with obstacles on the way out. The secret is taking your time to be calm within you, the answer will find you.
The internal guidance system works best when you are relax and focus. Joy is a key factor to achieving greatness. Learn to laugh. Be happy. Do your best, be the guy with the idea, dream big, work hard and never be lazy.
The future belongs to the hopeful.
Someday, everything will make perfect sense. So for now; laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason.
You are not alone.
One of many lessons I have learnt is never to find the way in anxiety or in worry. It’s frustrating to be running in circles in a dark room with obstacles on the way out. The secret is taking your time to be calm within you, the answer will find you.
The internal guidance system works best when you are relax and focus. Joy is a key factor to achieving greatness. Learn to laugh. Be happy. Do your best, be the guy with the idea, dream big, work hard and never be lazy.
The future belongs to the hopeful.
Someday, everything will make perfect sense. So for now; laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason.
You are not alone.
Monday, March 7, 2011
LET MERCY RULE YOUR HEART
"When you judge others, as a man who can also make mistakes, always reason along with care and judge no mans’ servant. Think good of others. What you project in your thought life towards others grows in your garden. Gratitude has recently been discovered by high achieving individuals as one of the most powerful tools for achieving dreams yet gratitude for your personal blessings cannot reverse the effect of ill willed thoughts towards others. Let mercy rule your heart."
This is my leading thought.
I do believe that little hinges swing huge doors. In my journey in life I have seen many people make mockery of a situation or a personality, or seek to take vengeance into their hands, thereby harbouring wickedness in their heart, the resultant effect is that the same happens to them. This is no excuse for wrong doing.
Guide your heart with all diligence, for out of it are the vital keys of life. Whatever you allow into the cultivation of your heart will germinate and rule your life.
Fight for your heart. Fight that fight, it’s a good fight. Am fighting certain things right now, never to allow it take root in my heart, less the good ground of my heart, be corrupted.
There are three gate ways to your heart.
1. Eye gate: what are you allowing into your life through your eyes? Censor what you view on T.V. Pictures have a high retaining capacity in human heart. Never allow any vain thought dominate your life. Thinking well of all men.
2. Mouth gate: what are you saying? Speak the desired future not the circumstance. You are the first prophet of your life. Be careful what you say, your words will soon become flesh. Speak the best of all men.
3. Hear gate: what / who do you listen to? Words are carriers of spirits. What / who you listen to will transfer his spirit to you. Hear no evil, think no evil, and see no evil.
Whatever you do this week, please LET MERCY RULE YOUR HEART.
This is my leading thought.
I do believe that little hinges swing huge doors. In my journey in life I have seen many people make mockery of a situation or a personality, or seek to take vengeance into their hands, thereby harbouring wickedness in their heart, the resultant effect is that the same happens to them. This is no excuse for wrong doing.
Guide your heart with all diligence, for out of it are the vital keys of life. Whatever you allow into the cultivation of your heart will germinate and rule your life.
Fight for your heart. Fight that fight, it’s a good fight. Am fighting certain things right now, never to allow it take root in my heart, less the good ground of my heart, be corrupted.
There are three gate ways to your heart.
1. Eye gate: what are you allowing into your life through your eyes? Censor what you view on T.V. Pictures have a high retaining capacity in human heart. Never allow any vain thought dominate your life. Thinking well of all men.
2. Mouth gate: what are you saying? Speak the desired future not the circumstance. You are the first prophet of your life. Be careful what you say, your words will soon become flesh. Speak the best of all men.
3. Hear gate: what / who do you listen to? Words are carriers of spirits. What / who you listen to will transfer his spirit to you. Hear no evil, think no evil, and see no evil.
Whatever you do this week, please LET MERCY RULE YOUR HEART.
Monday, February 28, 2011
LIFE IS RICHER
I try to end this article with life is richer, because life is richer when you know what to do.Enjoy this.
Life is a journey. In reality life has been completely misunderstood.
The reason for the breath of life within us is for a purpose: a specific assignment to be achieved per time.
Life is a journey of assignments. It’s not party time until its mission accomplished.
The discovery of purpose is the beginning of the journey. Learn to discover your purpose. At every stage of life there will be different assignment to pursue, never mistake a bend for a bus stop. You will meet people on your journey to purpose in life that being with them may mean comfort but not destiny- destination. To build a mansion where you should pitch a tent is disaster.
Learn to know what stage of time and purpose you are. The understanding of times and seasons will differentiate the great. Move when the umpire of life blows the whistle.
Never live life as a victim. Feeling sorry for yourself or what you do, it will limit your impact. It is by no means a secret anymore that the energy of human mind is critical to the measure of his/her impact level.
Always keep a cheerful attitude. Life is richer that way.
Life is a journey. In reality life has been completely misunderstood.
The reason for the breath of life within us is for a purpose: a specific assignment to be achieved per time.
Life is a journey of assignments. It’s not party time until its mission accomplished.
The discovery of purpose is the beginning of the journey. Learn to discover your purpose. At every stage of life there will be different assignment to pursue, never mistake a bend for a bus stop. You will meet people on your journey to purpose in life that being with them may mean comfort but not destiny- destination. To build a mansion where you should pitch a tent is disaster.
Learn to know what stage of time and purpose you are. The understanding of times and seasons will differentiate the great. Move when the umpire of life blows the whistle.
Never live life as a victim. Feeling sorry for yourself or what you do, it will limit your impact. It is by no means a secret anymore that the energy of human mind is critical to the measure of his/her impact level.
Always keep a cheerful attitude. Life is richer that way.
Monday, February 21, 2011
Relationship Lessons from the SCHOOL OF HARDKNOCKS.PART II
8. Be your dream spouse.
Water will find its level. You attract value to the worth of your personality. If you want to marry a queen, are you a king? Each person marries who he or she deserves.
9. Never ignore relationship danger signs.
God will reveal to you in style and phase certain reasons not to marry a particular person, dont ignore them. It may cost your life and others.
10. Incubate.
Dont tell it all to friends in the immediate when love find you. Allow the passion of love grow strong between the two before letting the steam out. Only God knows who is your friend.
11. Strike when the iron is HOT.
Say it now! I learnt this the hard way. When there is a strong build up of chemistry between two, and your total being agrees, (a deep seated witness) wait no more.Say it now!
12. Be sincere.
Answer the brutal question. Do I want this? What do you want?
Get a vision of the person you want to get married to / spend your destiny with. Dont be high minded,but never cut yourself short. Dont cut short your like and dislike they are innate and God given.
Dont ever say : “we are going into an unknown future”. Never! After all that you know. Oh , sorry may be you know nothing. You should have a glimpse of the future if not a clear picture before you take someone along, especially for men. The most disasterous moment of a visionary is when the spouse cant believe in him. Make sure your spouse believes in your vision.
Wish you a wonderful relationship. Thanks.
Water will find its level. You attract value to the worth of your personality. If you want to marry a queen, are you a king? Each person marries who he or she deserves.
9. Never ignore relationship danger signs.
God will reveal to you in style and phase certain reasons not to marry a particular person, dont ignore them. It may cost your life and others.
10. Incubate.
Dont tell it all to friends in the immediate when love find you. Allow the passion of love grow strong between the two before letting the steam out. Only God knows who is your friend.
11. Strike when the iron is HOT.
Say it now! I learnt this the hard way. When there is a strong build up of chemistry between two, and your total being agrees, (a deep seated witness) wait no more.Say it now!
12. Be sincere.
Answer the brutal question. Do I want this? What do you want?
Get a vision of the person you want to get married to / spend your destiny with. Dont be high minded,but never cut yourself short. Dont cut short your like and dislike they are innate and God given.
Dont ever say : “we are going into an unknown future”. Never! After all that you know. Oh , sorry may be you know nothing. You should have a glimpse of the future if not a clear picture before you take someone along, especially for men. The most disasterous moment of a visionary is when the spouse cant believe in him. Make sure your spouse believes in your vision.
Wish you a wonderful relationship. Thanks.
Monday, February 14, 2011
Relationship Lessons from the SCHOOL OF HARDKNOCKS I.
Its Valentines day, glossing through my note , i thought a love message will make the day, so i have choosen some persnal lessons that will be a blessing to all. Remember, little hinges swing huge doors.Enjoy the secrets.
Relationship tips that I learnt in a hardway.
1. Never listen to what you dont intend to practise.
Especially emotionally crazy stuffs, they have a way of setting your emotion on fire.
Words when wrongly processed always corrrupt everyother thing in the production line of the mind. Your mind is your processing chamber of life and death.
2. Dont say it when you dont mean it.
Your tongue is fire. Use it wisely.
3. Be careful not to build your future on a strong emotional rush, that is temporal, untested by time or principles.
Time has a way of revealing the truth. Time is a custodian of detail. When love is without principles, its like a gun in the hands of a toddler. When love is allowed to mature in the womb of time and principle, its like the painting brush in the hands of Micheal Angelo, a master piece will soon evolve.
4. S.P.A.C.E. give her space. That you are all over her dosent give you the ticket to marry her. Things that are scares have a way of been treasured. But be consistent.
5. Label your relationship.
Not all relationship should end in marriage. Some are just friendship for a season. Never mistake to label acid as water, it could mean life and death.
6. Never take a silence for a negative response.
7. Dont close a door on a relationship that appears to make you misrable when you could have made it better.
Relationship tips that I learnt in a hardway.
1. Never listen to what you dont intend to practise.
Especially emotionally crazy stuffs, they have a way of setting your emotion on fire.
Words when wrongly processed always corrrupt everyother thing in the production line of the mind. Your mind is your processing chamber of life and death.
2. Dont say it when you dont mean it.
Your tongue is fire. Use it wisely.
3. Be careful not to build your future on a strong emotional rush, that is temporal, untested by time or principles.
Time has a way of revealing the truth. Time is a custodian of detail. When love is without principles, its like a gun in the hands of a toddler. When love is allowed to mature in the womb of time and principle, its like the painting brush in the hands of Micheal Angelo, a master piece will soon evolve.
4. S.P.A.C.E. give her space. That you are all over her dosent give you the ticket to marry her. Things that are scares have a way of been treasured. But be consistent.
5. Label your relationship.
Not all relationship should end in marriage. Some are just friendship for a season. Never mistake to label acid as water, it could mean life and death.
6. Never take a silence for a negative response.
7. Dont close a door on a relationship that appears to make you misrable when you could have made it better.
Monday, February 7, 2011
Attitudes of the Ultimate gunners
Attitudes of the ultimate gunners
Born out of my love for the prestigious football club Arsenal FC, I made a speech sometime ago, (2006). I tried expressing key lessons to becoming “the ultimate” personality anyone could desire. I hope you will love it.
Attitude #1: Establish your goal post.
No one scores a goal without a goal post.
What will you call success when it happens? Write it down. The road to success should not be that of a wishful journey. Be deliberate. Learning to live life deliberately had helped increase my capacity for greatness. Your capacity to handle issues in life determines if you are ready for another level of greatness or not.
To establish your goal post, certain things has to be set:
a. SMART: be sPECFIC . let your goals be mEASURABLE. Make it aCHIEVABLE.be rEALIsTIC.
b. Be well schooled in your area of choice. Never make uninformed choice.
c. Be proactive: be the first to do..... ideas have shelf life.
Attitude# 2: Play your GAME.
What you do with the ball determine what happen to the score board.
Never allow distraction in any form. You might meet obstacles, keep moving anyways.
Only growing people meet obstacles. If you are not growing anyhow taller, you don’t have a problem with the door post.
Attitude #3: Don’t just keep records, keep details. Detailed people have a way of turning out great in life.
Attitude 4: Be ready to learn.
When the student is ready the teacher will appear. Learning is living. If you are not learning you are not living.
Build your leadership skill, every other thing is founded on it. Build an irresistible personality.
Continuous and never ending improvement should be your watch word daily. It’s the stirring rod of great achievement.
Always remember that, EXCELLENCE HAS NO FINISH LINE.
Born out of my love for the prestigious football club Arsenal FC, I made a speech sometime ago, (2006). I tried expressing key lessons to becoming “the ultimate” personality anyone could desire. I hope you will love it.
Attitude #1: Establish your goal post.
No one scores a goal without a goal post.
What will you call success when it happens? Write it down. The road to success should not be that of a wishful journey. Be deliberate. Learning to live life deliberately had helped increase my capacity for greatness. Your capacity to handle issues in life determines if you are ready for another level of greatness or not.
To establish your goal post, certain things has to be set:
a. SMART: be sPECFIC . let your goals be mEASURABLE. Make it aCHIEVABLE.be rEALIsTIC.
b. Be well schooled in your area of choice. Never make uninformed choice.
c. Be proactive: be the first to do..... ideas have shelf life.
Attitude# 2: Play your GAME.
What you do with the ball determine what happen to the score board.
Never allow distraction in any form. You might meet obstacles, keep moving anyways.
Only growing people meet obstacles. If you are not growing anyhow taller, you don’t have a problem with the door post.
Attitude #3: Don’t just keep records, keep details. Detailed people have a way of turning out great in life.
Attitude 4: Be ready to learn.
When the student is ready the teacher will appear. Learning is living. If you are not learning you are not living.
Build your leadership skill, every other thing is founded on it. Build an irresistible personality.
Continuous and never ending improvement should be your watch word daily. It’s the stirring rod of great achievement.
Always remember that, EXCELLENCE HAS NO FINISH LINE.
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
VITAL LESSONS PART 3 : IN SEARCH OF SUCCESS
Lesson #3: Define what success is to you.
What is success?
What do you want from life?
If you get what you want. Will you want what you get?
We should be able to answer the vital questions of life. Life in itself is full of questions, those that cannot provide adequate answers get cut up in misfortune and failure in life.
Each one should be able to determine what success is to him or her at every point in time.
The definition of success may change with time and season in our lives.
For boy of age 5, to him success may be to have so more toys to play with and more parties to attend. At age ten the definition of success changes, it may be to pass the “common entrance” examination. When he becomes an undergraduate, attaining good grade in school and getting a well paying job in a blue chip company may be success.
At marriage success is spelled differently. Definitely at old age success is much more than the regular.
It’s time to find what success is to you, and then pursue it.
Success is a journey.
Success is a process. Learn the process, obey the rules as you journey the road of greatness and never stop at pursuing the best.
Success is:
Knowing your purpose in life,
growing to reach your maximum potential,
and sowing seed that benefit others.
What is success?
What do you want from life?
If you get what you want. Will you want what you get?
We should be able to answer the vital questions of life. Life in itself is full of questions, those that cannot provide adequate answers get cut up in misfortune and failure in life.
Each one should be able to determine what success is to him or her at every point in time.
The definition of success may change with time and season in our lives.
For boy of age 5, to him success may be to have so more toys to play with and more parties to attend. At age ten the definition of success changes, it may be to pass the “common entrance” examination. When he becomes an undergraduate, attaining good grade in school and getting a well paying job in a blue chip company may be success.
At marriage success is spelled differently. Definitely at old age success is much more than the regular.
It’s time to find what success is to you, and then pursue it.
Success is a journey.
Success is a process. Learn the process, obey the rules as you journey the road of greatness and never stop at pursuing the best.
Success is:
Knowing your purpose in life,
growing to reach your maximum potential,
and sowing seed that benefit others.
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