Its Valentines day, glossing through my note , i thought a love message will make the day, so i have choosen some persnal lessons that will be a blessing to all. Remember, little hinges swing huge doors.Enjoy the secrets.
Relationship tips that I learnt in a hardway.
1. Never listen to what you dont intend to practise.
Especially emotionally crazy stuffs, they have a way of setting your emotion on fire.
Words when wrongly processed always corrrupt everyother thing in the production line of the mind. Your mind is your processing chamber of life and death.
2. Dont say it when you dont mean it.
Your tongue is fire. Use it wisely.
3. Be careful not to build your future on a strong emotional rush, that is temporal, untested by time or principles.
Time has a way of revealing the truth. Time is a custodian of detail. When love is without principles, its like a gun in the hands of a toddler. When love is allowed to mature in the womb of time and principle, its like the painting brush in the hands of Micheal Angelo, a master piece will soon evolve.
4. S.P.A.C.E. give her space. That you are all over her dosent give you the ticket to marry her. Things that are scares have a way of been treasured. But be consistent.
5. Label your relationship.
Not all relationship should end in marriage. Some are just friendship for a season. Never mistake to label acid as water, it could mean life and death.
6. Never take a silence for a negative response.
7. Dont close a door on a relationship that appears to make you misrable when you could have made it better.
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