Monday, February 21, 2011

Relationship Lessons from the SCHOOL OF HARDKNOCKS.PART II

8. Be your dream spouse.
Water will find its level. You attract value to the worth of your personality. If you want to marry a queen, are you a king? Each person marries who he or she deserves.

9. Never ignore relationship danger signs.
God will reveal to you in style and phase certain reasons not to marry a particular person, dont ignore them. It may cost your life and others.

10. Incubate.
Dont tell it all to friends in the immediate when love find you. Allow the passion of love grow strong between the two before letting the steam out. Only God knows who is your friend.

11. Strike when the iron is HOT.
Say it now! I learnt this the hard way. When there is a strong build up of chemistry between two, and your total being agrees, (a deep seated witness) wait no more.Say it now!

12. Be sincere.
Answer the brutal question. Do I want this? What do you want?
Get a vision of the person you want to get married to / spend your destiny with. Dont be high minded,but never cut yourself short. Dont cut short your like and dislike they are innate and God given.
Dont ever say : “we are going into an unknown future”. Never! After all that you know. Oh , sorry may be you know nothing. You should have a glimpse of the future if not a clear picture before you take someone along, especially for men. The most disasterous moment of a visionary is when the spouse cant believe in him. Make sure your spouse believes in your vision.


Wish you a wonderful relationship. Thanks.

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