Levels of Love

Never under estimate the power of love.

Love is the singular emotion of power; that can make or mar the progress pattern of life.

Never under estimate that power.

Speaking of love in marriage, these are very important levels or call it BLENDS OF LOVE necessary for a fulfilled love life.

First level: DUTY

Love in its mature state comes with it certain duties expected of both parties in love.

For the husband, the providing basic needs of the home, leadership, mental and physical involvement in family activities. Sex is also a duty for both parties.

For the wife; respect, organising meals, clothing and comfort of the family and more are duties of critical attention.

Second level: FRIENDSHIP

This is that stage of intercession.

For example; after a particular fund has been released for family up-keep for two weeks, may be in just four days the total fund has been expended.

The wife on this level of love should be able to intercede for more, with carefully crafted words of love.

The husband on this level of love should also accept the plea of his spouse without much agony.

Intercession is that comfort of being able to approach the husband or wife to change his or her mind on a matter.

If you always know better than your partner, you are not in love.

Third level: TOTAL EMPATHY

Do you think for or about your spouse?

This is the level of active thought for your spouse.

For example; Mr. A leaves for an important six hour meeting without breakfast, know that he is not such a person who likes to always eat out, his wife Mrs.B, calls the nearest restaurant to place an order in his name to be delivered to Mr. A 's office immediately after the meeting.

Wao! What a deposit of Love!

That is active thinking- Total empathy.

Knowing when your spouse needs a thing, before they even know it themselves and making plans to prepare it.

Kindly note; for a heaven on earth experience in life, purpose and family the three levels must run in harmony.

Love provides. Love observes duties.

Love intercedes. Love forgives.

Love is actively thing.

Love is life.