THE COUNSEL

I received a counsel a few weeks back, feel i should share with you, its not absolute but i believe it will bless you. Enjoy learning.

1. Marry right.
2. Both of you should be willing to work on your marriage.
3. Be willing to expose yourself, only to each other.
4. Never allow external influence, first resolve the issues with yourself. Let it be within both of you, if you allow external influence your spouse loose respect with the people. The people may support you but will never respect your spouse; thereby you will soon loose respect too.
5. The way you carry your spouse is the way people will respond to them. Preferable call your spouse “Nike” / pet name.
6. All give to your spouse what they will ordinarily not get outside. Like kneel down for the man. May be say thank you after sex.
7. Never allow ungodly counsel in your relationship. Watch it with face book friends. Know all friends of influence on your spouse, if they are not right agree to cut off from them.

SOMEDAY EVERYTHING WILL MAKE PERFECT SENSE

At certain times in our life’s we find the road slippery or face rock hard challenges, despite the investments and the things we know or can do. Is life trying to get me at something? Sometimes we wonder. What is all this about?

One of many lessons I have learnt is never to find the way in anxiety or in worry. It’s frustrating to be running in circles in a dark room with obstacles on the way out. The secret is taking your time to be calm within you, the answer will find you.

The internal guidance system works best when you are relax and focus. Joy is a key factor to achieving greatness. Learn to laugh. Be happy. Do your best, be the guy with the idea, dream big, work hard and never be lazy.
The future belongs to the hopeful.

Someday, everything will make perfect sense. So for now; laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason.

You are not alone.

LET MERCY RULE YOUR HEART

"When you judge others, as a man who can also make mistakes, always reason along with care and judge no mans’ servant. Think good of others. What you project in your thought life towards others grows in your garden. Gratitude has recently been discovered by high achieving individuals as one of the most powerful tools for achieving dreams yet gratitude for your personal blessings cannot reverse the effect of ill willed thoughts towards others. Let mercy rule your heart."
This is my leading thought.

I do believe that little hinges swing huge doors. In my journey in life I have seen many people make mockery of a situation or a personality, or seek to take vengeance into their hands, thereby harbouring wickedness in their heart, the resultant effect is that the same happens to them. This is no excuse for wrong doing.

Guide your heart with all diligence, for out of it are the vital keys of life. Whatever you allow into the cultivation of your heart will germinate and rule your life.

Fight for your heart. Fight that fight, it’s a good fight. Am fighting certain things right now, never to allow it take root in my heart, less the good ground of my heart, be corrupted.
There are three gate ways to your heart.
1. Eye gate: what are you allowing into your life through your eyes? Censor what you view on T.V. Pictures have a high retaining capacity in human heart. Never allow any vain thought dominate your life. Thinking well of all men.

2. Mouth gate: what are you saying? Speak the desired future not the circumstance. You are the first prophet of your life. Be careful what you say, your words will soon become flesh. Speak the best of all men.

3. Hear gate: what / who do you listen to? Words are carriers of spirits. What / who you listen to will transfer his spirit to you. Hear no evil, think no evil, and see no evil.

Whatever you do this week, please LET MERCY RULE YOUR HEART.